CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR HAPPINESS

A new beginning of life maybe described with changes of routine pattern of ongoing living condition or job change. Mine is comprised both and I decided to make such changes for my future life.
I 've moved from the city where I used to live for eighteen years. Not only relocation of my living place I 've also changed the business sector which I've dedicated all my effort almost twenty years.
Change is a verb even maybe perceived as a stress factor for any living creature.
Although the condition it may have  negative impact on our happiness we usually find out reasons and justification for not to change or leave it for our comfort zone for unknown.
There should be determination and a route plan thus an awareness regarding meaning of life through enjoying the life.
One may say that is not easy cause there are quite a lot  rational for keeping the condition which we do not want to be in. No absolutely not I am not agree with that idea cause the justifications, reasons we count are invented by our brain's thinking pattern or  they are imposed by surrounding community, culture
There is a proverb in Turkish culture which is '' If someone has 'not seen the sea before doesn't want to see it '' . Everything around us are  full of imposed  ideas and styles and we all  unfortunately tend to obey the rules of living as described to us. Why do we want to have more money ? It is so simple cause our data base ,our brains has uploaded with such demands and we tend to believe they are mutual fact of better life. It's a pity that we usually trick our mind instead of forcing ourselves to think what is best for happiness. Hereby I've recalled a powerful story telling;
An American tourist meets a Mexican fisherman resting on the shore. He asks him how long he goes to fish everyday "Not very long,” answered the Mexican.
“But then, why didn’t you stay out longer and catch more?” asked the American.
The Mexican fisherman explained that his approach is to only catch how much ever he and his family needs on that day.
The American asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?”
“I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, and take a siesta with my wife. In the evenings, I go into the village to see my friends, have a few drinks, play the guitar, and sing a few songs…I have a full life.”
The American interrupted, “I have an MBA from Harvard and I can help you! You should start by fishing longer every
day. You can then sell the extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat. With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second one and a third one and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers. Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can negotiate directly with the processing plants and maybe even open your own plant. You can then leave this little village and move to Mexico City, Los Angeles, or even New York City. From there you can direct your huge enterprise.”
“How long would that take?” asked the Mexican.
“Ten, perhaps twelve years,” replied the American.
“And after that?”
“Afterwards?
That’s when it gets really interesting,” answered the American, laughing. “When your business gets really big, you can start selling stocks and make millions!”
“Millions? Really? And after that?”
“After that, you’ll be able to retire, live in a tiny village near the coast, sleep late, play with your children, catch a few fish, take a siesta with your wife, and spend your evenings having a few drinks and enjoy your friends.”

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